Throughout life, fate brings us with different people. Classmates, classmates, colleagues, acquaintances ... Over time, the environment changes. Most people in a certain period disappear from our lives, and only real friends remain close until the end.
The stereotype that female friendship does not exist still has a place to be. It is believed that the fairer sex maintain relations only when it is convenient for them. Do not think so, no one is safe from betrayal, and anyone can stumble. Male friends also sometimes quarrel and stop talking.
If you are still in doubt about the existence of female friendships, read our article. Below are 10 facts about the best friend: it’s tearfully funny and touching stories about friends, interesting information for girls. If you can check each of them, then you can be sure that your friend’s feelings are sincere. You can consider her a real friend.
10. Gives you the most fun gifts
Only a close friend can give you the most fun gift. She, like no one else, knows your tastes and understands what will be appropriate in this case and what will not. Her gift will always be welcome. What's the secret? Close people deserve something special, she knows this and will try to make the gift not only beneficial, but also pleasing.
9. Do not miss the moment to make fun of you
A close friend is happy to joke with you. There is nothing wrong. Most likely, she loves humor and practical jokes. She knows how to make you laugh, how to cheer you up. She is never bored with her. Moreover, sometimes others may be shocked by your manner of communication.
She can make fun of personal flaws and appearance, but do it so that you are not offended. A kind of motivation.
Of course, we are not talking about those cases when a friend openly taunts, humiliates you in front of other people. If she allows herself too much, then she wants to establish herself at your expense, and this person can hardly be called a girlfriend.
8. Is able to give advice
The great advantage of friendship is that “strong shoulder”. You can rely on her in any situation. The best friend will not only listen, but also help you find a way out. She always gives advice, but to use it or not, it's up to you. No need to blame a friend if, after her recommendations, the situation becomes even more complicated.
By the way, advice is the best way to understand how it really relates to your friendship. Especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.
Women for the sake of personal happiness are ready to go over their heads, in which case friendship for them is nothing more than an empty phrase. If she constantly expresses discontent about your new gentleman, think about it, is he so bad? Or maybe your girlfriend just wants to tear you apart?
7. Ready to listen to you endlessly
Everyone knows that girls are very fond of talking. And if they are best friends, then the conversation may drag on. Are you ready for hours to discuss the latest fashion and hairstyle of a neighbor, men and ways of body shaping ...
You share life plans and the latest news. You can chat about anything, but such moments are very close. It’s good when there is someone nearby who can express their thoughts.
Just pay attention to how your conversation is built. Does a friend try to tell about herself as much as possible, interrupts and does not allow her to express her opinion to you? Wake-up call. She puts herself in the first place, and her main feature is self-centeredness. This girl wants the world to revolve around her. Such people do not know how to be friends.
6. Always understand
Best friend will always understand. Even if others turn away and condemn, she will not teach you life, but will try to enter your position. It seems that it cannot be otherwise, but no. All people are different, and they are not required to understand each other.
Unfortunately, most of them put their problems first, they do not care about other people's experiences. If your girlfriend is not like that, she is sincerely interested in your life and trying to understand you, answer her the same. Otherwise, soon her patience will end.
5. Sincerely loves you
Close friend, like a sister. Yes, you are not relatives, but she sincerely loves you. To be honest, such relationships between girls are now rare. Our grandmothers knew how to make friends disinterestedly, and now people have forgotten how to feel. The value system has long since changed. So, if you managed to find a real girlfriend, try to maintain this relationship.
4. Able to keep secrets
Few people know how to keep other people's secrets. If there is a person near you who will not talk about your secrets, you are lucky. Indeed, in most cases, the girls tell each other everything to the smallest detail, and then they can not resist, they want to share information with other people (of course, in great secret).
If a friend is in a difficult situation and decides to consult with you, do not rush to ask for help from your husband or mother. She trusted you, not your relatives. If you allow yourself to chat a lot, don’t expect that your girlfriend will not do the same in return.
Be careful with even your closest friend. You do not need to trust her secret if you are not sure of her honesty. The easiest way to check is to tell a stunning "news". Think of it yourself. If a friend can’t resist, you will find out sooner or later.
3. Ready to help in any situation.
Life is unpredictable, and there will be many more situations in which you can check how strong your friendship is.
Best friend will come to help at any time of the day or night.. It is enough to call her and say: "I need you." She will help with kind words, money, connections. She will not give you an insult. Protect, regret, listen.
Of course, one should not forget about the boundaries of what is permitted. If you belong to those girls who regularly find themselves in difficult situations, due to their stupidity and recklessness, at some point no one will want to lend a helping hand to you, even a close friend.
2. May cheer up
She knows how to cheer you up. Ice cream or champagne, a funny comedy or touching melodrama, intimate conversations or a night club visit. And maybe shopping? She has a couple of methods that work flawlessly. And you know: even if depression begins, you don’t have to go to a psychologist.
1. Knows everything about you
There is an opinion that a true girlfriend is a personal psychologist who does not need to pay. An undeniable advantage - she does not need to be put up to date, she, and so, knows everything.
They say that the strongest friendship is the one that began in childhood. There is something in it. People know everything about each other, they don’t need to pretend. For example, if a girl from a poor family has become rich and famous, only a close friend will know her real one. For all others, she will become a completely different person.
Only a friend will understand how much effort had to be made to achieve his goal. With real friends you don’t have to play a role, pretend, you can be yourself.
For most of us, statuses from social networks of this type: “A close friend is so dedicated to the details of your life that you need to either kill her or keep it to death ”, seem funny and fake, but it's the truth of life. When a friendship ends, a friend can become the most dangerous person because she knows too much. Therefore, trust your secrets only to trusted people, and let your friendship last as long as possible.