In youth, people relate to life with ease. We present to your attention the top 10 rules of life that we would like to know about in our youth.
10. People around are sources of information
Perhaps now you are focused only on yourself. You are worried about your own experiences, you do not care about others. But remember that they are sources of information. It is very important to learn to listen to them and remember what they say to you. If you do not communicate with people, in the future you run the risk of being left without friends, work, customers. Make connections now, even if you're still a first year student. Any casual acquaintance may benefit you in the future. That's just for this you need to remember at least the name of the interlocutor.
9. Choose people to take an example from.
Pay attention to your environment if you want to achieve success in the future. If your friends only think about where to get money to go to a club or buy a couple of bottles of beer, it's time for you to change friends. They will pull you back. Communicate with worthy people, find someone who can arouse your admiration. Try to reach the same heights, and then surpass them. Always focus on the best, but do not envy them and do not compare with yourself. Think about what you can do to achieve the same situation.
8. Shyness is the enemy of progress
No wonder the people came up with a proverb about arrogance. Maybe this is not the second happiness, but such people live much easier. They easily achieve what they want. Do not waste time and nerves on empty experiences. If you are unlucky, and you do not attribute yourself to these "lucky ones", you will have to work on yourself. You yourself know that shyness prevents you from declaring yourself, so overcome it. Communicate with people, even if you feel out of place. If you study, try to speak as much as possible to classmates, answer the questions of teachers, do not sit on the last desk, lurking like a mouse. If everything is bad, and you are not able to overpower yourself, attend personal growth courses or consult a psychologist. You will be taught to communicate with different people, shyness will no longer ruin your life.
7. Discover the world
Many young people live their best years thoughtlessly. Studying, working, clubs, the Internet, chatting with friends - that's what they live for. Know the world while you are young. Read books, watch smart films, take an interest in the world around you. Travel as much as possible. While you have no family, and nothing holds you back, visit other cities, countries. Do not spare money. Let it seem to you that you cannot afford to pay a huge amount for 10 days of rest. Refuse to purchase expensive things and clothes, spend money on impressions. In old age, you will remember where you visited, and not about which boutique you bought the next blouse.
6. Money needs to be earned
You must understand that money does not fall from the sky, and your parents will not be able to provide you with your whole life. Sooner or later, you have to become independent. Yes, if now you earn very little, strive to become wealthy in the future. To do this, you need to learn, improve your knowledge and, of course, gain experience. Try to find a business to your liking, then there will definitely not be a shortage of money. Do not be afraid to accept low-paying jobs. Look not at the salary, but at the possibility of promotion through the ranks. Dreaming of becoming a cafe director, you have to work as a waiter. Want to run a store, start with the seller. At your age, without proper experience, you are unlikely to be able to get a good position.
5. Need a program of action
While you are young, put together an action plan. Do not live by inertia. Think about what you want to achieve and what you need to do. Make a plan, limit your actions to a time frame. You will know which way to move. But be prepared for the fact that everything will go wrong as you planned. In this case, you should have thought out ways to retreat. If your plan has failed, do not worry or think that your life is ruined. Perhaps you just thought badly. Most young people and girls vaguely imagine what they want from life, rush from one extreme to another, "try on" the aspirations of friends and girlfriends. Think with your own head, then everything will work out.
4. Keep fit
Already at a young age, you should worry about your figure. Many will say: “Why? I have a good figure. I eat what I want and look great. ” Maybe now you look good, but it would be better if you start eating right and doing sports. In the future, it will be difficult for you to change your habits, and after 10 years you will no longer be able to eat cakes for the night with impunity and ignore physical activity. Extra pounds and health problems will not take long. Lead a healthy lifestyle, and your body will say thank you.
3. Record everything important
A very good habit. Even if you have an excellent memory, it is quite difficult to keep everything in mind. One fine (or not so) day, you will be horrified to remember that you forgot about the most important. Write down the things you need to do, the dates of important events, the time you visited the doctor, the birthdays of loved ones. In the evening, give yourself a little time, analyze what you should do tomorrow, write down the plan of action for tomorrow in a notebook or smartphone.
2. Know how to cope with household appliances (washing, ironing, cooking, etc.)
Of course, if you live with your parents, you do not bother with household chores. You do not cook, do not wash, do not clean. What for? Your mother will do everything herself. Some lucky ones are lucky, and all the duties that mother or grandmother performed, they shift to the shoulders of the wife or husband. So you can live your whole life, and never do household chores. What if you are left alone? Can you take care of yourself? Learn everything now. In addition, your partner or relative also wants to take a break from the household, give him such an opportunity.
1. Dream and act
Do not listen to anyone, dream. Let them say that many dreams are not destined to come true, and you are always in the clouds. If a person does not know how to dream, he will soon run out of desire. Such a life is boring and uninteresting. But only dreams will not be able to decorate your life with bright colors. But you can do it if you achieve what you want. Act, do everything to fulfill your dream. Even if there are obstacles and obstacles in the way, overcome them and go to your goal. Yes, by the way, the sooner you begin to act, the faster your dream will come true.