Psychologists are confident that the poses of husbands and wives that they take during sleep can say a lot about the relationship between them. The following are the most common body positions that can be used to easily analyze the relationship between a wife and a husband.
10. “Conquering space”
Husband and wife, who are in this position during sleep, are more like rivals who entered the ring for victory, and not like loving spouses. This is a sign that marriage has serious problems, omissions: people do not seek to show tenderness and care for their soul mates in such relationships.
As much space as possible in bed is usually sought by the spouse who needs to constantly receive confirmation of his importance, including from his second half. The main thing is not to assert oneself at the expense of the partner. The person who raises his arms above his head during sleep is quite stubborn. He wants to control everything and strives for leadership in the family.
9. “Do not go, stay with me”
This pose shows the need to feel with your body another person in order to feel some kind of security. This is not to say that it is an indicator of caring and tender feelings in the family. Most likely, in this marriage, one of the partners does not have enough attention from the wife or husband. It is possible that the partner simply does not have enough communication with the other half. The self-esteem of a person who often turns his back on a partner may be too high.
8. "Plexus of arms, plexus of legs"
Legs or arms are usually woven together by spouses who feel strong affection for each other. In such relationships there is always passion, a spark. Often young people lie this way, who have just tied the knot: they feel great happiness, euphoria and subconsciously want to merge with each other, turn into a single being. This position is often taken by spouses, often inclined to be jealous.
7. "Domination"
One partner lays its head on the chest or shoulder of another. Such a posture is a sign of the presence of love between husband and wife, their strong attachment to each other. These relations are filled with mutual understanding, they are very harmonious. In sex, these couples are usually just fine. At the same time, the husband or wife takes the role of leader in these relations, and this does not bother the second partner at all.
6. "At arm's length"
Such relationships can be called free to some extent, they have spontaneity. Wife and husband respect each other's personal space. Most often, each partner has his own circle of friends, they can not rest together, and at the same time, the husband and wife trust each other, and without limit. A man who reaches out is ready to defend his soulmate. If the other partner puts his palm under his cheek, this means that he feels calm and protected. If the wife and husband quarreled before this, it is possible that this pose expresses their desire and willingness to conclude a truce.
5. “Spoon”
If one partner presses his back to the other, and he hugs him from behind, this means that the family always shows attention and care. Husband and wife feel calm, security, comfort in these relationships. However, such a marriage is still not ideal: there is some uncertainty between the spouses. Perhaps they are not saying something, hiding it.
4. “You are far from me”
If the husband and wife turned away and moved away from each other at a fairly considerable distance, most often this means that there are problems in their relationship that need to be addressed immediately. It is possible that they consider each other to be competitors or want to become more free in marriage (for example, to meet their friends more often, travel somewhere, and so on).
If the partners "closed" their hands and their bodies are tense, it is quite possible that recently there was a serious conflict between them, after which no one wanted to make concessions. If there is no tension in the pose, there are no problems between the wife and husband: they simply treat each other’s personal space with respect.
3. “You are half and to me half”
There are quite good relations between the spouses, who during the night's rest divide the sleeping place into two halves, but there are still some problems. If a person is on his side, turns away from his partner, this means that he does not want to see him. People who often turn over on their stomachs during sleep often show intractability and are rather reserved. If the legs of the partners are intertwined, there are some obligations in their relationship that no one should forget.
2. “I look at you like in a mirror”
Love relationships between people who prefer to sleep this way can be called ideal. Everyday problems, household routine have practically no effect on them. This pose during a night's rest is taken by partners who are not only wonderful lovers, but also best friends. They feel a spiritual connection, an intellectual interest in each other, which over time does not fade away, but only flares up. It is such a relationship that has every chance of lasting for many years.
1. "Back to back"
Partners who lean their backs against each other during a night's rest strive to maintain intimacy, while not forgetting the importance of personal space. The relations between such husbands and wives are equal, filled with mutual respect, harmony, they are very strong. However, in such a marriage, comfort plays a very important role. If any partner does not feel that in these relations he is free, unlimited in anything, he does not feel absolutely happy. Over time, such discontent accumulates and turns into a very big problem: as a result, quarrels arise.