Many people think that the first year after the solemn day of the wedding is a kind of a protracted honeymoon: the young spouses are still immersed in love euphoria, so they do not notice any flaws either in themselves or in their partner.
However, why, then, does a huge number of couples break up precisely in the first year after the wedding? Of course, there is a place for betrayal and the notorious incompatibility of characters, however, a significant part of divorces occurs on the basis of some domestic quarrels.
Little things, which at first seem insignificant and even ridiculous, can eventually destroy even the strongest marriage union.
We present the 10 most popular everyday mistakes of newly-married spouses, which can lead to a divorce.
10. Trimmed nails around the apartment
Perhaps the owner of those same nails is not distinguished by natural pedantry and does not experience a physiological aversion to the appearance of fragments of his own biological material on the floor.
However, in the second half, it is likely that such a spectacle is unlikely to please, unless, of course, she was raised in the jungle by wild animals.
9. Wet towel on the bed / sofa
There is a category of people who cannot stand the kind of wet laundry at all, even if it is clean.
Sitting on a sofa or lying down on a bed after a wet towel has lain on it (even if it has absorbed moisture from a loved one’s body) can be like torture with a hot iron, especially if this is repeated systematically, despite numerous requests not to do this again.
8. Scattered things
With a lovely paradise in a hut, however, even a hut should not become like a stable over time. In the beginning, when endorphins overwhelm our body, we focus exclusively on the object of our passion and forget about everything that happens around.
However, such a state will sooner or later begin to subside, and your desire to find spiritual harmony will no longer be content with the mere fact of having a loved one nearby.
You will also want to find harmony in the world around you. And when there is a mess around, and not created by you, but by the evil will of your soulmate, then you will slowly but surely go crazy until one day it occurs to you that divorce in this case will be much more effective than psychotropic drugs.
7. Turning off the lights
It is believed that a good half of the people living on the beautiful planet Earth suffer to a greater or lesser extent this notorious OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder).
An obsessive state involving the obligatory performance of certain actions or compliance with certain conditions makes us poison our loved ones with constant requests to lower the toilet seat, straighten the curtains and, of course, turn off the lights when leaving the room.
Undoubtedly, this can be associated not only with OCD, but also with natural frugality, however, both can bring a person out of a state of psychological balance.
6. Toilet paper
Toilet paper should be in place! If your loved one insistently asks not to shift it to another corner of the restroom (even if it’s very compact), believe me, it would be better to listen to his advice.
Do not think that because of toilet paper marriage cannot break up. Many newlyweds did not pass the test with toilet paper, therefore, if you value relations with your soulmate, it is better not to forget to return this personal care product to its rightful place.
As a last resort, buy your own roll and toss it wherever you go.
5. TV volume
The habit of a young spouse to watch TV loudly when the other half is sleeping or just wants to stay in silence after a busy day can really become a serious stumbling block in the relationship of the newlyweds.
On one side of the scale here lies the comfort and tranquility of a loved one, and on the other - their own established habits.
4. Mismatch of sleep and wakefulness
This is a rather serious problem, especially for newlyweds, for whom physiological rhythms mean a lot.
When one of the spouses is an “owl” and the other is an “early bird”, then they wake up, fall asleep and even feel hunger at different times.
When one feels the urge to talk heart-to-heart or watch a sentimental melodrama together, the other just wants to sleep.
Among other things, such people may have problems in their sexual lives, as here their biorhythms will not coincide.
3. Water switch position: shower / faucet
When one of the newlyweds is doused with boiling water or ice water, the concentration of endorphins in his blood will begin to drop sharply and the spouse will gradually appear in front of him no longer surrounded by “pink smoke”, but a completely terrestrial creature endowed with, in addition to the undoubted advantages, also a bunch of flaws that now have to put up with.
2. Things are always lost, are in different places of the apartment
For a person who is accustomed to living in his established life himself, a similar situation will become a very powerful emotional stimulus. It will always seem to him that the other half is doing it on purpose, wanting to get him crazy.
Therefore, sooner or later, a thing lost or misplaced will turn into a full-fledged reason for a quarrel.
1. Shifting responsibilities for the care of animals
Suppose a young wife asked her newly-married husband for a long time to have some kind of pet, promising her naive half that all the troubles associated with staying this lovely creature in their home would completely fall on her shoulders.
However, having played enough with the animal, the woman very quickly lost interest in him and now the need to care for the animal began to weigh on her.
In this situation, her husband finds himself in an extremely unpleasant situation: on the one hand, he succumbed to the whim of his beloved wife, believing that she would not neglect the responsibility entrusted to her, on the other - he already managed to become attached to a cute animal and can no longer simply give it to someone. Therefore, you have to walk it or regularly change the sand in the tray yourself. And confidence in the young wife will be lost ...