Among the large number of holidays there is one special one, namely Valentine's Day. A wonderful event, when there is a hope to hear the most secret words, and if you do not hear, then get a certificate of tender feelings in the form of a gift.
Yes, and to express the languor of the soul on this wonderful and authorized day for love confessions. On earth there are many people who are waiting for miracles in the love sphere on this day. Many have a need to say good words and not be ridiculed - also on this day. And many people love to give presents - and here Valentine's Day comes in handy.
But we must keep in mind that when one person does something nice to another, then he bestows, first of all, himself. Seeing the delight of a loved one when presenting a gift, the giver experiences joy even greater than the hero of the occasion. Looking at the gifts that people gave each other, many will take their breath away. Palaces, islands, cars.
But, if the donor is neither a millionaire, nor an Indian shah, nor the head of state, nor an official, then when making a gift to a loved one, one must take into account his tastes and preferences. Do not pursue the goal of giving anyhow that and thereby spoil the relationship with a dear person.
10. Postcard
Valentine's card. Cute little thing. A simple, small, low-budget and most common sign of attention.
Angels, swans, kittens near the dogs, gold and silver in the design, an irrepressible waltz of red hearts.
And many, many words. But these words do not come from the heart of the donor, but from an unknown manufacturer of this printing miracle.
Unfortunately, such a token has no addressee. It is not a touching reminder of the deep and true feeling that excites the donor.
Such a valentine does not breathe love. But if the postcard is made with your own hands, then this will be a completely different story.
9. Pair gifts
Figurines of lovers, figures made according to the photo, portraits in the photo for two people, paired t-shirts, medals for two, key chains and so on and so forth.
From these gifts one gets the feeling that words are no longer needed. Their uniqueness and quality factor is frightening. Such gifts look like a kind of talismans and a memory of love.
Something is present in them from divination, spiritualism, mysticism. They say that public opinion does not stigmatize someone who, with the help of such a gift, finds his sympathy. And if the donor is "cracked", then you can always "disown". And then the gifted one will want to run to his mother, to his family, so that they can console him.
In defense of paired gifts, I would like to note that they are usually made of durable materials. And their shelf life is decent.
8. Soft toys
Plush animals. Such a gift comes from childhood. The gift will necessarily be associated with the donor. What does he see himself as? Teddy Bear, lop-eared hare, salamander lizard?
They look sweet and frivolous. You can collect a whole collection of toys, but whether they advance a romantic story is doubtful. Perhaps they will be good for practical jokes. But, as a rule, they only accumulate dust.
7. Candy / champagne
More often used as a gift for lovely ladies. The gift is quite trivial. And associated with the sticker "Ministry of Health warns."
The fact that the alcoholic drink was made many years ago and is branded does not mean at all that the lady will appreciate it. And since the representative of the fair sex has not yet been born, who would not torment herself with diets, or she would not have an allergy to chocolate, such a gift is likely to require even emergency assistance. On the other hand, I want to emphasize that sweets can be given without a reason.
6. Souvenirs
A mug with a heart at the bottom, a watch with the name "Kama Sutra", toys, relaxants. Perhaps they will occupy a worthy place in the interior. But how they talk about people's feelings for each other is unclear.
On recognition day, people are more inclined than ever to speak and be overwhelmed with exalted feelings. And if a person is set up for such a conversation, then the design of the gift should be worthy.
5. Socks
This gift has been preserved since the time of total deficit. When presented as a gift everything that they could get on occasion. And since the incident could not be repeated, there could be no talk of any brilliant ideas. The focus was on the benefits.
Socks as a gift are presented by people savvy and homely. They know that such a gift will always be in demand.
Give hosiery and pantyhose products carefully. Since various beliefs are associated with it. So it’s better not to give such gifts to people with superstitions.
4. Animals
A living being is presented as a gift. And many people at this moment begin to worry the most controversial thoughts. After all, if it is a kitten or puppy, then obviously he will become a member of the gifted person's family.
That tenderness, care, attention that should be intended for a loved one is wasted on the right to a small fluffy creature. And now the meetings will be not so much romantic in nature as reminiscent of the meeting of young veterinarians.
Responsibility for the one whom the person tames is enormous. For his health and education. Will the owner of such a gift want and be able to pay attention to a new friend. The question is far from idle.
3. Intimate toys
Of course, such a gift will not leave anyone indifferent. It implies a sufficient degree of trust in each other.
Offers to improve in personal relationships, to work out issues of intimacy.
It can please, or it can scare, thereby revealing internal conflicts that can destroy relations. Delicacy is not enough gifts of this kind.
2. Crockery
Eternal flame. The Germans have confidence that a modern woman can have only three "Ks": a kitchen, a church, and a kinder.
If the person who receives the gift is from Europe, they will probably understand him. But if not, then you should think about whether the companion will be delighted with such a gift.
1. Personal hygiene products
Well, really. Advertising is so powerful that not taking advantage of a gift from this series is not the top of recklessness. But they relate to gifts "with a hint." The gifted person can be put in an awkward position.
Most women are brilliantly versed in the nuances of personal care. These are their personal secrets, feelings, fears, joys and hopes. And let this world be closed to the stronger sex.
In conclusion, it is worth noting that on such a wonderful holiday you do not need:
- give formal gifts;
- use template approaches;
- leave a loved one without a gift at all;
- hope that the gift will replace personal participation.
Only personal charm, sincerity and joy of the moment can take the relationship of lovers to a new level.